Been there, done that. When we lose our identity, we lose our power… and some people never ‘find’ themselves again.
Please don’t lose yourself in a relationship or in anything else that isn’t an expression of who you are (e.g., romance, work, friendships, community, etc.). It’s not worth it.
I’m sure there are quite a few of us on here who would agree.
Can you keep a promise? Promise yourself that you won’t lose yourself (again). :)